OCEAN COUNTY – Domestic violence is not always visible. It can take the form of bruises and broken bones, but it can also mean withheld paychecks, relentless humiliation, or threats that leave someone too afraid to leave. Recognizing that abuse is multifaceted, Providence House Domestic Violence Services in Ocean County has been a refuge for survivors since 1986, offering both safety and support to those in crisis.
“We provide crisis services for survivors of domestic violence in Ocean County,” said Mary Pettrow, Service Area Director of Children and Family Services at Catholic Charities, Diocese of Trenton. “That includes emergency housing for people fleeing abusive situations. Survivors can stay in our safe house for up to 60 days.”
Unlike other programs that may involve waiting lists, Providence House makes it clear that anyone in crisis will be accommodated. At the safe house, survivors receive meals, clothing, and basic necessities, often after arriving with nothing but what they’re wearing. All services are free of charge and confidential.
Dottie’s House Closure
Until recently, Providence House could refer clients to Dottie’s House when their time in the safe house came to an end. With the closure of Dottie’s House, survivors face fewer options.
“The closing of Dottie’s House means there are fewer resources available for individuals and families who need housing because they are affected by domestic violence,” Pettrow said. “We will no longer be able to refer clients there when it is time for them to transition out of the safe house.”
This challenge is magnified by New Jersey’s severe housing shortage. “New Jersey is currently facing a deficit of more than 200,000 units of affordable housing,” Pettrow added. “And that has a negative impact on many survivors of domestic violence who are looking to start over.”
Advocacy And Partnerships
Providence House’s reach extends far beyond its shelter. The organization works hand-in-hand with all Ocean County police stations and the New Jersey State Police. Through its Domestic Violence Response Teams (DVRTs), highly trained volunteers are dispatched to police stations or emergency rooms when survivors come forward.
“They are available 24/7 to advocate for survivors, educate them about their rights, and just be with them during an incredibly trying time,” Pettrow said.
The organization also offers counseling, legal advocacy, and education programs aimed at breaking the cycle of abuse.
A Community Effort
Like many nonprofits, Providence House operates with thin margins. Yet its mission is sustained through grants, partnerships, and community generosity.
“It’s important to note, our services are provided at no cost,” Pettrow said. “The safe house, meals, clothing – all of these things are provided free of charge.”
Community members can help by donating money, food, and household items, or by volunteering. Opportunities include joining a DVRT team or assisting with outreach efforts.
“Monetary donations are always welcome,” Pettrow emphasized. “Anyone interested in volunteering or joining a DVRT team can visit CatholicCharitiesTrenton.org and see how their help is needed.”
Always Open, Always Free
For survivors in need, Providence House’s 24/7 confidential hotline remains a lifeline:
Ocean County Hotline: 1-800-246-8910
Statewide Hotline: 1-800-572-SAFE
“Since 1986, Providence Domestic Violence Services has been providing shelter to survivors in Ocean County,” Pettrow said. “As well as caring for survivors, we are committed to breaking the cycle of abuse. We believe every home should be safe.”
